Secret Revealed: Men give love to get sex, Women give sex to get love

Some may think it’s no longer a secret, some may find it so harsh, but it’s true nonetheless. Now, you’re starting to think, am I right? Try to look at the bigger picture, not just at yourself. Individually, maybe we could say it’s not true, but we’re talking in general here, we consider the majority. It’s a secret men and women have but couldn’t keep.

 

Why? Because action speaks louder than words!

 

It’s so hard to admit that it’s true, because we ourselves are victims of this secret. We sometimes do it without knowing it. Others do it deliberately, because of their personal motive, their secret agenda.

 

It’s very elementary to know men’s nature in general. Men, especially the young ones, are captives of their own curiosity (but it does not mean that women are not curious about things). They will do whatever it takes to gain different kinds of experiences this life would offer. Most of them are not afraid to try new things, and one of these things is sex.

 

Sex is a very influential force that triggers one’s mind to do unusual things for pleasure. One way to achieve it is to be in a relationship, finding a partner for such activity. However, finding a partner is not an easy task for everyone. Unappealing men sometimes have a hard time looking for their partner. On the other hand, it is easier for attractive guys, they could easily get one anytime. And since the motive is to get sex, men are willing to give love: a conditional love. No wonder there are a lot of good-looking men having a not-so-good-looking girlfriend. Is it true? Sometimes NO, but most of the time, YES.

 

So influential, eh?

 

Others need not to be in a relationship for the same purpose. They could have it ANYTIME! Why? Because there are women who are willing to give SEX, just to get LOVE. How come it’s true? There are several cases where women get seriously attracted, if not desperate, with someone so alluring but could not get his attention. And I guess most women know men’s secret, or should I say weakness: sex. Some think that giving them such would reciprocate in the form of LOVE. Is it true? May be yes, may be no.

 

See? Now you’re starting to agree!

 

How many different movies have you watched or real-life experiences you heard could confirm that this secret is true? Not to mention your colleagues’ or your classmates’ similar experiences that you are now starting to recall. How many men gave love to get sex? And how many women gave sex to get love?

 

Is it wrong? Is it harsh? It’s up to you to judge. As for me, conditional love is a thrash: unsuccessful and undesirable.

 

Again, I didn’t say all men and women are like that. But it happens, most times, and this secret will be passed on generation after generation.

 

 

Cheers!

 

 

-Xian  

 

 

 

1 comments:

jeq5 said...

very true.. thats y there are so many sex video scandal being circulated on the net.. men were pervert! and women are victim!