Compatibility Theory: Lucky is the woman who is the last love of the man

In this post, we are going to dig another secret recipe of a successful relationship. In our previous topic, we talked about the reasons why a man who is the first love of the woman is considered lucky. This time, we’ll discuss a similar topic: Lucky is the woman who is the last love of the man.

How come the woman who is the last love of the man is considered lucky? Why not the first? What is so special about men’s last encounter of love?

Again, we’ll go back to understanding men’s nature. So what do we all know about men? During teenage years, they’re usual objective upon entering a relationship is not to express love (though they think it is) but to gain experiences, satisfy their burning curiosities and to find out what they really like. Men would just like to feel what first kiss tastes like at first. Then, they would crave for more intimate experiences, more and more each time. One more thing, men mature more slowly than women. No wonder, you could see teens, even adults who still play video games.

Some may disagree and say, what if in your teenage years, you’d already found the woman who you would take seriously because you really love her? Here’s my answer: Yeah, their relationship may last for a few years, but remember that men’s curiosity is so powerful that it would take control of them. There would still come a time when men would cheat and play around and you shouldn’t be surprised about it (you may not even know it). It’s men’s nature after all. ^^

But the question is: Would men play around their entire life?

Of course not!

Like we said earlier, men mature more slowly than women, but take note… they would still mature completely in time.

When is that?

When one day they wake up and realize they had enough. When men realize that they’re getting old enough to still play and have fun all the time, they’d start to settle things down.

Yeah, they would take you seriously this time: No more games, no more curiosities, and no more mysteries. All they would long for is someone to spend their lifetime with. That’s why a woman who is the last love of the man is considered lucky.

GAME OVER!

Cheers!

- Xian

Compatibility Theory: Lucky is the man who is the first love of the woman

It’s a pretty common saying, yet it’s claimed to be one of the secret recipes of a successful relationship. That’s why in this post, we would try to discuss this one and enumerate the reasons why this saying is considered a secret recipe of a successful relationship.

 

How come a man who is the first love of the woman is considered lucky? Why not the second or third? What is so special about women’s first welcoming of love?

 

First of all, it’s all about women’s nature. We all know that women are more matured than men of the same age when it comes to relationships. Thus, women would usually take their first relationship seriously. Women are usually the ones who look at the future and think ahead of time. Most women dream of having their firsts as their lasts, and since their first relationship is so special for them, they give out almost everything if not all, to their first love: trust, love, time, and attention. That is why a man who is the first love of the woman is considered lucky.

 

However, the dream of having their firsts as their lasts usually gets ruined. Why? It's because of men's nature that will be discussed in our next post. The result of their broken dreams is a slight touch of trauma. That’s why on their second, third and fourth relationships, women get more cautious and careful not to get hurt again. And because of that, they would no longer offer 100% love, trust, time, and attention for they are now afraid of agony and throbbing. Their love, trust, time, and attention gradually diminish with each passing relationship, until such time when they meet the man who would take them seriously and sincerely.

 

So if you are a lucky guy, try to give more importance to your girl. Try your best not to hurt her or cheat on her for you may not get the special love and care you will always wish you had.

 

 

Cheers!

 

 

 

- Xian