It’s a secret that women should know. Of course, we don’t want you to be fooled as much as possible. We don’t want you to misinterpret the actions of men around you.
We assume that at this point, you were able to read the preceding posts here in Secrets Revealed. If not, we recommend you to read them.
The other post is closely related to our topic: Men’s Secret: Why we are nice to you.
A guy being nice to you does not mean that he LIKES you. Keep this in mind: If he’s nice to you, then so he is to other girls.
Then what does it mean? Why are men nice to YOU?
There are many possible reasons but we will reveal secrets according to known experiences.
Men are nice to you because of different motives. One possible motive is physical attraction. Men are nice to you because you are stunning, alluring, and you possess a sexy figure that really attracts them. Who would not be? Ask yourself, how do guys treat pretty girls? On the other hand, how do they treat the not-so-good-looking-ones?
It adds up to men’s confidence and self-worth to get acquainted with the likes of you. Then, they would try to get closer and closer… as close as they possibly can.
Another possible reason is about gaining experiences like what we had said on the other post. Men are nice to you because they want to get something out of you. You just got so lucky it was you, their target victim to have sex with. It may not be sex, but as long as they have the motive or secret agenda, they could start getting it by simply being nice to you.
There maybe some who would disagree to the first possible reason we have stated (Men are nice to you because you are gorgeous). Others may claim that a lot of guys are nice to girls even though they’re not pretty or sexy. Yes you are right, and we agree with you! So here comes the last possible reason that we’re going to discuss in this post: the art of collecting. ^^
Men are nice to you because he could include you to his vast collection of possible-girlfriends-to-be. Do you think men have only one prospect at a time? That’s not men’s nature and neither their secret. They always have plan B, thus having more than one prospect. Then aside from his main prospect, who else would be on his list? You sure want to know the answer? Okay. It’s YOU!
Men do not only devise a plan B but rather devise a plan for the future. They are nice to you because you could be on the list of his present and future prospects. Now, are you starting to agree?
Again, we are not saying that all men are like that, we are talking in general and we are not accusing anybody of doing anything. We are speaking from our own and others’ experiences. Men could be nice to you without any secret agenda, but always consider those who have different motives. Be careful not to get hurt because of wrong judgment or misinterpretation.
Peace out!
-Xian
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