Secret Revealed: Men give love to get sex, Women give sex to get love

Some may think it’s no longer a secret, some may find it so harsh, but it’s true nonetheless. Now, you’re starting to think, am I right? Try to look at the bigger picture, not just at yourself. Individually, maybe we could say it’s not true, but we’re talking in general here, we consider the majority. It’s a secret men and women have but couldn’t keep.

 

Why? Because action speaks louder than words!

 

It’s so hard to admit that it’s true, because we ourselves are victims of this secret. We sometimes do it without knowing it. Others do it deliberately, because of their personal motive, their secret agenda.

 

It’s very elementary to know men’s nature in general. Men, especially the young ones, are captives of their own curiosity (but it does not mean that women are not curious about things). They will do whatever it takes to gain different kinds of experiences this life would offer. Most of them are not afraid to try new things, and one of these things is sex.

 

Sex is a very influential force that triggers one’s mind to do unusual things for pleasure. One way to achieve it is to be in a relationship, finding a partner for such activity. However, finding a partner is not an easy task for everyone. Unappealing men sometimes have a hard time looking for their partner. On the other hand, it is easier for attractive guys, they could easily get one anytime. And since the motive is to get sex, men are willing to give love: a conditional love. No wonder there are a lot of good-looking men having a not-so-good-looking girlfriend. Is it true? Sometimes NO, but most of the time, YES.

 

So influential, eh?

 

Others need not to be in a relationship for the same purpose. They could have it ANYTIME! Why? Because there are women who are willing to give SEX, just to get LOVE. How come it’s true? There are several cases where women get seriously attracted, if not desperate, with someone so alluring but could not get his attention. And I guess most women know men’s secret, or should I say weakness: sex. Some think that giving them such would reciprocate in the form of LOVE. Is it true? May be yes, may be no.

 

See? Now you’re starting to agree!

 

How many different movies have you watched or real-life experiences you heard could confirm that this secret is true? Not to mention your colleagues’ or your classmates’ similar experiences that you are now starting to recall. How many men gave love to get sex? And how many women gave sex to get love?

 

Is it wrong? Is it harsh? It’s up to you to judge. As for me, conditional love is a thrash: unsuccessful and undesirable.

 

Again, I didn’t say all men and women are like that. But it happens, most times, and this secret will be passed on generation after generation.

 

 

Cheers!

 

 

-Xian  

 

 

 

Men's Secret Revealed: Why we are nice to YOU

It’s a secret that women should know. Of course, we don’t want you to be fooled as much as possible. We don’t want you to misinterpret the actions of men around you.

 

We assume that at this point, you were able to read the preceding posts here in Secrets Revealed.  If not, we recommend you to read them.

 

The other post is closely related to our topic: Men’s Secret: Why we are nice to you.

 

A guy being nice to you does not mean that he LIKES you. Keep this in mind: If he’s nice to you, then so he is to other girls.

 

Then what does it mean? Why are men nice to YOU?

 

There are many possible reasons but we will reveal secrets according to known experiences.

 

Men are nice to you because of different motives. One possible motive is physical attraction. Men are nice to you because you are stunning, alluring, and you possess a sexy figure that really attracts them. Who would not be? Ask yourself, how do guys treat pretty girls? On the other hand, how do they treat the not-so-good-looking-ones?

 

It adds up to men’s confidence and self-worth to get acquainted with the likes of you. Then, they would try to get closer and closer… as close as they possibly can.

 

Another possible reason is about gaining experiences like what we had said on the other post. Men are nice to you because they want to get something out of you. You just got so lucky it was you, their target victim to have sex with. It may not be sex, but as long as they have the motive or secret agenda, they could start getting it by simply being nice to you.

 

There maybe some who would disagree to the first possible reason we have stated (Men are nice to you because you are gorgeous). Others may claim that a lot of guys are nice to girls even though they’re not pretty or sexy. Yes you are right, and we agree with you! So here comes the last possible reason that we’re going to discuss in this post: the art of collecting. ^^

 

Men are nice to you because he could include you to his vast collection of possible-girlfriends-to-be. Do you think men have only one prospect at a time? That’s not men’s nature and neither their secret. They always have plan B, thus having more than one prospect. Then aside from his main prospect, who else would be on his list? You sure want to know the answer? Okay. It’s YOU!

 

Men do not only devise a plan B but rather devise a plan for the future. They are nice to you because you could be on the list of his present and future prospects. Now, are you starting to agree?

 

Again, we are not saying that all men are like that, we are talking in general and we are not accusing anybody of doing anything. We are speaking from our own and others’ experiences. Men could be nice to you without any secret agenda, but always consider those who have different motives. Be careful not to get hurt because of wrong judgment or misinterpretation.

 

 

Peace out!

 

 

 

-Xian