Men's Secret Revealed: Why we are nice to YOU

It’s a secret that women should know. Of course, we don’t want you to be fooled as much as possible. We don’t want you to misinterpret the actions of men around you.

 

We assume that at this point, you were able to read the preceding posts here in Secrets Revealed.  If not, we recommend you to read them.

 

The other post is closely related to our topic: Men’s Secret: Why we are nice to you.

 

A guy being nice to you does not mean that he LIKES you. Keep this in mind: If he’s nice to you, then so he is to other girls.

 

Then what does it mean? Why are men nice to YOU?

 

There are many possible reasons but we will reveal secrets according to known experiences.

 

Men are nice to you because of different motives. One possible motive is physical attraction. Men are nice to you because you are stunning, alluring, and you possess a sexy figure that really attracts them. Who would not be? Ask yourself, how do guys treat pretty girls? On the other hand, how do they treat the not-so-good-looking-ones?

 

It adds up to men’s confidence and self-worth to get acquainted with the likes of you. Then, they would try to get closer and closer… as close as they possibly can.

 

Another possible reason is about gaining experiences like what we had said on the other post. Men are nice to you because they want to get something out of you. You just got so lucky it was you, their target victim to have sex with. It may not be sex, but as long as they have the motive or secret agenda, they could start getting it by simply being nice to you.

 

There maybe some who would disagree to the first possible reason we have stated (Men are nice to you because you are gorgeous). Others may claim that a lot of guys are nice to girls even though they’re not pretty or sexy. Yes you are right, and we agree with you! So here comes the last possible reason that we’re going to discuss in this post: the art of collecting. ^^

 

Men are nice to you because he could include you to his vast collection of possible-girlfriends-to-be. Do you think men have only one prospect at a time? That’s not men’s nature and neither their secret. They always have plan B, thus having more than one prospect. Then aside from his main prospect, who else would be on his list? You sure want to know the answer? Okay. It’s YOU!

 

Men do not only devise a plan B but rather devise a plan for the future. They are nice to you because you could be on the list of his present and future prospects. Now, are you starting to agree?

 

Again, we are not saying that all men are like that, we are talking in general and we are not accusing anybody of doing anything. We are speaking from our own and others’ experiences. Men could be nice to you without any secret agenda, but always consider those who have different motives. Be careful not to get hurt because of wrong judgment or misinterpretation.

 

 

Peace out!

 

 

 

-Xian

Men's Secret Revealed: How to keep HIM for long - Part 1

It's the first in the series of men's secrets to be revealed here in Secrets Revealed. You may find a vast collection of secret-revealing articles in the net, however, what we are posting here are of personal experiences of the authors, the authors’ colleagues, friends, relatives and loved ones. We intend to enlighten minds just like what we said on our very first blog to be a better person and partner. We will try to help readers avoid committing mistakes whether they are in a relationship or not.

Let’s now start with our topic: Men’s secret: How to keep him for long.

Young men usually do not settle for a long relationship like everything’s only for fun. Men could easily be turned-off with the slightest of women’s unsightliness. They are always after the physical attributes of women. One way to keep him for long is to stay attractive, never get used to your guy, and always treat him as a new person who likes to see your gorgeousness each and every day. Your capability to alter your beauty to another level should be kept secret to your guy. It should be something that he would look forward to see every time.

Men would always tell you which fashion you had used that significantly got his attention. Once he told you that, it would only mean one thing: He wants you that way, and would like you less the other way around. But here’s the catch, a secret you should know as a woman: Men would get easily used to anything. Spaghetti is great, but eating spaghetti everyday is not good either. Try different things, have different looks! Distinguish which day is special and which is ordinary, alter your style accordingly.

What you’ve read today is just the least thing you should know on how to keep your boyfriend for long.

More secrets to be revealed so always come back here at Secrets Revealed!

Cheers!

-Xian